tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post957134446134759606..comments2023-10-02T11:11:57.034+01:00Comments on Bippidee: DesperateBippideehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-61088946228880193252010-12-29T21:15:44.292+00:002010-12-29T21:15:44.292+00:00I can relate to what you are saying:(
I dont't...I can relate to what you are saying:(<br />I dont't know what could I say to make you feel better except I understand you and I send you lots of hugs.recovering_borderlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08819202755097602795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-12296458908438864422010-12-29T14:54:56.753+00:002010-12-29T14:54:56.753+00:00I agree with everything Lexie said. I think you H...I agree with everything Lexie said. I think you HAVE accomplished a lot this year-- you've done a lot of performing.<br /><br />I can relate to what you're saying in your second paragraph. But I really hope you can hang on until things change. Because I think they will.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-90609150067761681992010-12-28T20:46:06.068+00:002010-12-28T20:46:06.068+00:00You are such a sweetie. Your worth is immense. Kee...You are such a sweetie. Your worth is immense. Keep in touch over the next few days, I'm always happy to talk to my friend Bip.<br /><br />*Hugs*Narkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479667859623157702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-3230736182528676372010-12-28T18:52:40.586+00:002010-12-28T18:52:40.586+00:00The whole bloody thing sucks and is horrendously t...The whole bloody thing sucks and is horrendously triggering. Obviously I hope you <b>don't</b> kill yourself, but I understand the desperate circumstances. I hope you can stay strong and be kind to yourself.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />P xPandorahttp://serialinsomniac.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-91736174468031501962010-12-28T17:18:23.214+00:002010-12-28T17:18:23.214+00:00{{{hugs}}}
I agree with others that you have achi...{{{hugs}}}<br /><br />I agree with others that you have achieved much this year, to be proud of, but also understand the feelings that you haven't, or that it's "not enough" - No one holds us to as high a standard as we hold ourselves, and no-one punishes us as much when we fail to reach them as we do ourselves...<br /><br />I also understand the gap between <i>knowing</i> Jan 1st is just anotherday, and <i>feeling</i> it is... so much emphasis and so many connotations and meanings are placed upon it... I know that you're strong enough to get through it, even if that might not be what you want. And I hope that this coming year proves to be a good one, and one in which you finally achieve happiness and a comfortableness with yourself.<br /><br />Take care,<br />DifferentlyDifferently Sanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16746806943247903267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-74860776305161637272010-12-28T14:00:24.523+00:002010-12-28T14:00:24.523+00:00Agreeing with all above. You have achieved sooo mu...Agreeing with all above. You have achieved sooo much this year. I know I find it hard just before the start of a new year, like someone else has said it just reminds me of how bad I think things have been this year.. Next year is a new year, with new opportunities and new chances to improve the way things are. As hard as it is try not to lose hope hun xoxRainbowTearshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17793845155383853558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-81947963123711593202010-12-28T13:40:18.773+00:002010-12-28T13:40:18.773+00:00I also agree with Lexie. I've also felt the w...I also agree with Lexie. I've also felt the way that you describe here and for me it feels like I need to get away from myself. Remember, you've gone through many New Year's in the past and you will get through this one. *hugs*Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-49245194256704422562010-12-28T11:49:57.116+00:002010-12-28T11:49:57.116+00:00I get the same way when it gets closer to the New ...I get the same way when it gets closer to the New Year- I think about what a fail the past year has been and I think about how much I feel as though I can't cope with another year. Sending you strength and love to get through to the new year. *hugs*Cassiehttp://willfindhope.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-15123535598694012862010-12-28T06:29:43.529+00:002010-12-28T06:29:43.529+00:00Hey Bippidee, I know that sometimes it can feel ov...Hey Bippidee, I know that sometimes it can feel overwhelming when you expect to be feeling a certain way 'by now' and that you are still feeling it and nothing seems to help. I felt like this so many years in a row it just didn't feel like I should go on either but I learnt that those were my expectations and not how others saw me at all. No one expected the things I expected of myself. I thought I should be better, further on in my career, have a better job or be at a certain place in life by now. I also have now learnt that that is a different place and time for every single person and it's only you that probably feels that way. I am 36 years old and I have only had a permanent good job in May this year. I didn't start working until I was 32 and before that studied because I was scared of work. I did one or two subjects a month at uni. I was also on disability for a long time and then one day I just wanted it to be better and it's taken to now for that to happen. I am not upset with myself for not being further along in my career, even when I know my friends or people I know have been working for years. It just took a bit longer for me and the ride has not been easy. At least you are trying and that's all you can expect of yourself. Be gentle with yourself.<br />*hugs*<br />SarahSairshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09110575221596955775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-48723147453795320642010-12-28T04:59:34.445+00:002010-12-28T04:59:34.445+00:00Gee... I've turned into a mean, nasty, screami...Gee... I've turned into a mean, nasty, screaming, crying, harping, hysterical mess, but I don't feel like killing myself. Someone else, possibly, but not myself. <br /><br />i think in my case, its called resentment.<br /><br />But, what is this about not succeeding or achieving anything significant? That is just not true, Bippie! Let's see in the very short time i've known you... You've had a big part in one musical, performed a SOLO in a big show featuring a broadway star, sung in a magnificent choir and snagged the lead in another top music. The LEAD and if you kill yourself they are going to be hopping mad!!!<br /><br />And all of that has been in the last 2 months!<br /><br />Sorry, you aren't feeling well, though. Everyone gains weight at this time of year. Its impossible not to and also, you had just lost several pounds that you did not NEED to lose. Please be gentle with yourself. xoLexiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15213559319252118335noreply@blogger.com