tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post7194281345238416156..comments2023-10-02T11:11:57.034+01:00Comments on Bippidee: My week so far: Part 2Bippideehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-9933552845146397532010-04-29T15:17:39.856+01:002010-04-29T15:17:39.856+01:00It's a positive thing that L is going to see y...It's a positive thing that L is going to see you more frequently whilst you're struggling. <br /><br />Just because you argue with your mum, does not mean she would be better off without you. It's a normal part of a relationship to have some arguments. It sounds like living with your mum does have its benefits, though I can understand that you want to have independance. Sounds like you have a lot to think about. The second housing accomodation can be good in that you have more support, especially if you tend to isolate yourself and self neglect. <br /><br />Your thoughts about just pulling yourself out of mental illness and becoming normal sound so familiar to me. I too think that I have no reason to have mental health issues and am just weak, pathetic etc. And while I know that I have mental health issues, it feels strange when it is acknowleged as something big and taken really seriously. Not everyone necessarilly has a reason for being mentally ill though, anyone can develop a mental illness, regardless of how well they cope with life. <br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />Cassie xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-73019060140531476422010-04-29T09:08:15.455+01:002010-04-29T09:08:15.455+01:00Its good that L can see you more often for a bit. ...Its good that L can see you more often for a bit. And she has obviously got you thinking about accommodation. I am older than you but I have retreated to my parents several times. Before I got my flat where i am now, I really wanted independence but was scared of not coping. Personally it has been the best thing that has happened. I dont need a happy mask as there is noone to put that on for. I do neglect myself and am poor at keeping things going sometimes, but then there is only me to pick things up again and thats a good thing. It makes me do it as I so desperately want to keep my own space. <br />Hope you can judge for yourself when you see whats on offer, take care xfine fine finehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06950101992822264631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-26296126555999702792010-04-29T07:34:47.233+01:002010-04-29T07:34:47.233+01:00I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way, bu...I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way, but hang in there, because there are always better things to come.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your kind comment on my recent blog post, your support meant an awful lot :-)<br /><br />You are lovely<br /><br />Sarah xmariposaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06034092323139133367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-33036386872482599542010-04-29T02:31:38.251+01:002010-04-29T02:31:38.251+01:00bippie... stay with us girl, you'll be OK. le...bippie... stay with us girl, you'll be OK. let your doc and therapists do their job to help you. you do have an illness... it's ok to be sick, but you also need to get help. don't beat yourself up about being a certain way. you're not alone. the Universe doesn't give you anything that you can't handle. xoxojghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03668556255279829587noreply@blogger.com