tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post2140406713981067856..comments2023-10-02T11:11:57.034+01:00Comments on Bippidee: Blog at riskBippideehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-64835407829232022742010-12-17T13:00:57.172+00:002010-12-17T13:00:57.172+00:00oh Bippidee, you must be so stressed! Blogging is...oh Bippidee, you must be so stressed! Blogging is a great release, especially when you live with other people that you can't be completely open with for whatever reason. So sorry to hear about this.JaneBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17779448611795379774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-79593605855316481162010-12-17T10:51:11.885+00:002010-12-17T10:51:11.885+00:00Perhaps if you moved to WP maybe your blog could h...Perhaps if you moved to WP maybe your blog could have a new name, to ensure they can't find you but you could still go by Bippidee? Like I'm If Narky, Feed Profusely, but I write under my name Karita. Seraching for Karita doesn't bring up my blog, Narky or Profusely does. Is that an option?Narkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479667859623157702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-56108529202633629632010-12-17T03:40:03.105+00:002010-12-17T03:40:03.105+00:00There are quite a few reasons why I blog anonymous...There are quite a few reasons why I blog anonymously - I did do a post on it once. Here it is http://bippidee.blogspot.com/2010/01/why-anonymous-blogging.html<br /><br />The main problem in the current situation is that I still live with my parents, and frankly I don't want them to know if I am feeling suicidal, or formulating plans around suicide etc. It would make me feel very trapped and I just couldn't deal with it.<br /><br />Pandora - in this case I am actually less concerned about him looking immediately, although that is a risk - it is more if say at some point in the future they notice I am not doing well and get concerned about me, and decide to look at my blog that they conveniently have the name of and see what I am thinking/planning. That is exactly what I don't want. And so even if it did take WP a while for the hits to appear, they would happen at some point, and I see this as more of a long term issue. As a matter of fact bippidee is not available on WordPress anyway, so I would need a different name if I were to move. But I am concerned about all the references to Bippidee in old posts/comments coming up thanks to Google. It is too private for me to want my parents to have access to. But I don't want to lose it all.Bippideehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-16650640670262131772010-12-17T03:15:00.314+00:002010-12-17T03:15:00.314+00:00What is the reason you blog anonymously? Would sta...What is the reason you blog anonymously? Would staying here and being yourself cause problems in your real life?Melissa Lynn Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09321574763903818850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-86547284117686892182010-12-17T03:02:40.843+00:002010-12-17T03:02:40.843+00:00Oh God. How awful. I don't have any words of...Oh God. How awful. I don't have any words of comfort, but I can empathise. I'd lose it completely without blogging :( <br /><br />If you moved to WP, 'bippidee' would take a while to register on Google I think - the first results would probably be back to here even if it were gone. Of course Google catches up sooner or Peter, but might his interest blow over after a bit?<br /><br />Sorry, this is no help at all. I'm just so sorry - this must be devastating for you :( Sending lots of hugs xxxxxPandorahttp://serialinsomniac.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-73998068854852360572010-12-17T01:49:42.801+00:002010-12-17T01:49:42.801+00:00Oh I am pretty sure he will look it up Lexie. He k...Oh I am pretty sure he will look it up Lexie. He kept trying to get me to tell him what it was called when he first found out I had a blog. And so I am certain he would look. And even if he didn't look now, if for example there was a period when they knew I wasn't doing well, I am sure they would look then. I think it would be like leaving an unlocked diary on the kitchen table and just trusting that nobody would look at it, even if they thought I might be suicidal for example. It would just be a plain stupid thing to do, and I think so would keeping my blog under the current name and location. I just don't trust my parents enough not to look at some point. He may have even looked when he first found it - I don't know. But I think at some point they would look, and I would not feel safe posting here in the future in that knowledge. Even if he agreed not to look now, if he was concerned for some reason then I couldn't trust him not to.<br /><br />At the moment I am thinking I am going to have to make the move to WordPress, which isn't what I want to do, but I don't see many alternatives. I am just so bloody furious. I want to go and smash the fucking printer into little pieces.Bippideehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-52911831701112903052010-12-17T01:48:21.236+00:002010-12-17T01:48:21.236+00:00Oh my goodness! I can only imagine what you'r...Oh my goodness! I can only imagine what you're going through right now. That's scary. I'm so sorry.<br /><br />But if you decide to make your blog private/by invite, you should ask your commenters to email you with their email addresses so you can invite them that way. I know it's less than desirable, but it's something.<br /><br />I'm so sorry.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-23397352701752064792010-12-17T01:30:29.035+00:002010-12-17T01:30:29.035+00:00wow, thats so unfortunate. I rely on my blog to ve...wow, thats so unfortunate. I rely on my blog to vent whatever I need to vent knowing I don't have to cencor because no one knows who I am. I'm sure all the blogs I follow are the same. So i don't know what to tell you.<br />Does he know you have a twitter account? you can direct your blog entries through twitter so we can still find them. Sadly, you will probobly have to change the name of the blog. :-( But only give the new name out on twitter where he doesn't go.<br />Sorry hun,...<br />wished I could helpMy Black Foghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290925430252045966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-85273996248630384842010-12-17T01:00:22.942+00:002010-12-17T01:00:22.942+00:00Sweetie... This is simple. (I think) ;) Tell your ...Sweetie... This is simple. (I think) ;) Tell your dad that you didn't mean for him to see your blog info or its name... (he probably won't remember how to spell it, anyway, cause he's a man) :)<br /><br />But, just be honest. Tell him that it is your place to write whatever is on your mind and that you aren't comfortable with anyone that you know in "real life" reading it or knowing what is said on it, other than your therapist. nothing personal and probably a moot point. <br /><br />In other words, as you respect his privacy, you are hoping that he will respect yours. This blog is important to you, and is helping you a lot and you hope that he understands. end of story. You can even tell him in an email, if you don't want to discuss it any further.<br /><br />I wouldn't worry. I doubt that he's even remotely interested. Men, usually aren't. You're safe. But, just let him know in a way that won't make him feel like you're singling him out and it will be totally fine.<br /><br />xoxo...<br /><br />(ps: i have great news which I'll be posting soon!) :)))Lexiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15213559319252118335noreply@blogger.com