tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post1278127441106967699..comments2023-10-02T11:11:57.034+01:00Comments on Bippidee: Random musingsBippideehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-81820523645469908992010-07-07T20:57:27.924+01:002010-07-07T20:57:27.924+01:00I think sometimes people do not understand that do...I think sometimes people do not understand that doing nothing is as potent as doing the thing they are avoiding or resisting. In other words, maybe your friend just doesn't know what to say so is saying quiet. Little does your friend know that just acknowledging you with a "hi" would be enough. <br />I am glad that L didn't cancel. I hope the session was ok. <br />xx krisKristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17383541747197866087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-82230185116727330592010-07-06T23:35:09.157+01:002010-07-06T23:35:09.157+01:00L didn't cancel - there was of course no reaso...L didn't cancel - there was of course no reason to think she would, but I will write about that in another post.<br /><br />NOS, the friend in question absolutely knew what was going on, and is sometimes supportive, but other times will just seem to ignore me for weeks, whether I am struggling at the time or not. It is confusing because sometimes she will be really supportive and caring - she sat with me in A&E for hours one day last summer when I was made to go there to be assessed, and when I was struggling a few months ago she made a card for me etc. But other times she just makes no contact at all. I don't have a problem with her not wanting to talk sometimes - that is up to her. I just think it wouldn't hurt to send a quick message saying so.<br /><br />xxxBippideehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10499124986641789890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-67625168919916148212010-07-06T15:25:52.610+01:002010-07-06T15:25:52.610+01:00It must be very frustrating and upsetting to alway...It must be very frustrating and upsetting to always have to call people and to not have them there for you when you need them. Have you told any of them that you're having a hard time? Maybe they would help if they knew you wanted help.<br /><br />I hope L doesn't cancel. And I hope the appointment goes well.<br /><br />In your corner,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2445354648404556157.post-48554918843830084232010-07-06T07:29:29.173+01:002010-07-06T07:29:29.173+01:00Hope L doesn't cancel on you - you sound like ...Hope L doesn't cancel on you - you sound like you need some support. Am here if you want to message though my blog etc. I know it's not the same but I am, and genuinely wish you well and a way out of the hole you're stuck in. xLa-revehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02255771946214951488noreply@blogger.com